“Look and see, for everyone is coming home! Your sons are coming from distant lands; your little daughters will be carried home.”

Isaiah 60:4

Yes, this is the third day of my reflections on coming home. I want to say a bit more on this subject because I think it is crucial for us. It’s also timely, given the approaching holidays.

For Israel, the homecoming of Jews who had been exiled throughout the world was a sign that God’s kingdom had dawned. Thus the people yearned for the great homecoming of the future.

For many of us, our literal homecomings can be wonderful. But, for others, they are fraught with difficulty and pain. When we gather with our families for the holidays, we sometimes realize how much we aren’t really “at home,” how much we ache for an acceptance we’ll never know with our natural relatives, how desperately we yearn for a real home in which we can feel fully at peace.

This yearning can point us to our heart’s true home. Ultimate acceptance, safety, and peace come when we make our home in Christ. In John 15 Jesus said, “Abide in me, and I in you” (v. 4, KJV). The verb translated as “abide” means “to remain” or “to make our home in.” It’s related to the Greek word for “home,” just as “abide” is related to “abode.” Jesus invites us to make our home in him. When we come home to Jesus, we’ll experience safety and acceptance. In this context, we’ll be empowered to live fruitful lives.

So, if during the holiday season you find yourself literally at home, but still yearning for a deeper experience of truly being at home, let that yearning lead you to Christ. In him, and in him alone, you’ll find the home that sustains, protects, and empowers. Here you’ll discover a love that sends you into the world as a minister of Christ.

QUESTIONS FOR REFLECTION: Have you ever felt at home in Christ? When? When you think of making your home in Christ, what comes to mind?

PRAYER: Dear Lord Jesus, thank you for the invitation to make my home in you. Thank you for reaching out to me, helping me to receive the good news in faith so that I might make my home in you.

Lord, as much as I know love with my family, there is no better “home” than you. I know this, but often forget it. Forgive me when I try to replace you with other “homes,” those that ultimately disappoint. Only when I am fully at home in you am I able to enjoy and contribute to the other “homes” of my life.

I pray today for those who are about to experience difficult homecomings. May they sense your presence in the midst of their confusion and pain. Bring healing to families, friendships, and wounded hearts. Let those who ache for home turn to you, so that they might find the safety and love that you alone can provide.

In the name of Jesus, my heart’s true home, Amen.